We all find ways of insulting our adversaries.
One of the cheapest ways of doing it through public discussion. And because their are N number of people present, the idea of it being directed at you would seem ludicrous. It may or may not be true, but somewhere we and they know. And many more know.
And so there we have it.
A famous politician once gave an awesome example. When there's a cyclone or flood, its the upright trees that are uprooted, the grass simply bends with the flow of the strong current and remain intact.
So, this girl, lets call her pigeon, has this old enmity. And honestly has gone to great lengths to embarrass me. And I have almost always never answered back. I mean come on, I really do have better things to do. And, lets keep this between us, I have even spoken my mind about her to many. When I really could not take the double standards being played out so beautifully.
Yeah, so it happens that when I was faced with this public-speaking-but-cant't-answer-back dilemma, I at first was speechless at her hardness, consider here the fact I had apologized and put it behind. And I apologized knowing that I'm not the only one at fault.
And the second emotion I felt was that of bubbling laughter because I realized what incredible double standards, and how idiotically comfortable in her own world she was.
Umm, looking at the event briefly, it was about looking at the other side of the problem (that is hatred) and unrestrictive parents.
Well, the other side she never seeked before or after or during the "trial".
And (this is funny) parents are restricting because of your code of conduct. Please read that as our little princess has the perfect set of manners and has never messed up.
Third, was the concept of "girly". Again I quote, "Who are you to say, "Oh my god you're so girly!""
What she meant here was that nobody is to comment on what the other wears or dresses like. If you don't like it, keep it to yourself.
Well the first one is not even worth a thought. Our pigeon is the sort who would never approach or make the first move, wants her way throughout. And the worst part is use for her benefit the people she can't stand the sight of. Anything I can bear, but hypocrisy...it plays havoc on my nerves.
The second thing of restrictive parents, hers never question her. Pigeon has the liberty to come and go as she pleases. In fact, she wants some restriction on her, she asks for it! And because that's her scenario at home, all the parents who usually don't allow such freedom have kids they can't trust, since, and I quote, "Nobody can trust you like your parents do."
Well beauty, my mother has seen rape victims aged 6 months. Helped medically examine daughters raped by fathers, little girls by their brothers, wives with 90% burns and yet when it came to my job, she din't question my being out upto 1 a.m.
She wont allow me the basic night outs and other "sport" that you enjoy, and I can understand why. But still she has made sufficient room every now and again.
I have been angry for never being allowed the "fly away freedom" but there are ways I have to make adjustments for the woman whose very life revolves around me. Its not me she distrusts, its the world I step into when I step out of my house.
To the third, more than half the people I call my close friends are extremely girly. They dress well. They have an excellent judgement of color combination. They even discuss the latest trends and beauty tips with me. I admire these people and thoroughly enjoy their company and they have these aspects where I lack. I am perfectly content with my common blue jeans and a simple tee. I can't simply think beyond that, because my faculties somehow stop working when it comes to dressing. And these "girly" friends of mine are awesome.
I have called a person "girly" for a specific reason.
She knows, and din't care a damn.
You do because you simply can't mind your own business and have to butt into mine.
Get a life!
Man. I really never thought she would be so complacent. And cheap, considering the means with which she put forth her "modern views". (Modern! Kiss my ass! I can't think of a more closed mind). And now that I know, I am going to sit back and enjoy the mockery of this self proclaimed free thinking modernist.
The thought gives me immeasurable sadistic happiness.
Oh pleasure! Be mine!
;)
One of the cheapest ways of doing it through public discussion. And because their are N number of people present, the idea of it being directed at you would seem ludicrous. It may or may not be true, but somewhere we and they know. And many more know.
And so there we have it.
A famous politician once gave an awesome example. When there's a cyclone or flood, its the upright trees that are uprooted, the grass simply bends with the flow of the strong current and remain intact.
So, this girl, lets call her pigeon, has this old enmity. And honestly has gone to great lengths to embarrass me. And I have almost always never answered back. I mean come on, I really do have better things to do. And, lets keep this between us, I have even spoken my mind about her to many. When I really could not take the double standards being played out so beautifully.
Yeah, so it happens that when I was faced with this public-speaking-but-cant't-answer-back dilemma, I at first was speechless at her hardness, consider here the fact I had apologized and put it behind. And I apologized knowing that I'm not the only one at fault.
And the second emotion I felt was that of bubbling laughter because I realized what incredible double standards, and how idiotically comfortable in her own world she was.
Umm, looking at the event briefly, it was about looking at the other side of the problem (that is hatred) and unrestrictive parents.
Well, the other side she never seeked before or after or during the "trial".
And (this is funny) parents are restricting because of your code of conduct. Please read that as our little princess has the perfect set of manners and has never messed up.
Third, was the concept of "girly". Again I quote, "Who are you to say, "Oh my god you're so girly!""
What she meant here was that nobody is to comment on what the other wears or dresses like. If you don't like it, keep it to yourself.
Well the first one is not even worth a thought. Our pigeon is the sort who would never approach or make the first move, wants her way throughout. And the worst part is use for her benefit the people she can't stand the sight of. Anything I can bear, but hypocrisy...it plays havoc on my nerves.
The second thing of restrictive parents, hers never question her. Pigeon has the liberty to come and go as she pleases. In fact, she wants some restriction on her, she asks for it! And because that's her scenario at home, all the parents who usually don't allow such freedom have kids they can't trust, since, and I quote, "Nobody can trust you like your parents do."
Well beauty, my mother has seen rape victims aged 6 months. Helped medically examine daughters raped by fathers, little girls by their brothers, wives with 90% burns and yet when it came to my job, she din't question my being out upto 1 a.m.
She wont allow me the basic night outs and other "sport" that you enjoy, and I can understand why. But still she has made sufficient room every now and again.
I have been angry for never being allowed the "fly away freedom" but there are ways I have to make adjustments for the woman whose very life revolves around me. Its not me she distrusts, its the world I step into when I step out of my house.
To the third, more than half the people I call my close friends are extremely girly. They dress well. They have an excellent judgement of color combination. They even discuss the latest trends and beauty tips with me. I admire these people and thoroughly enjoy their company and they have these aspects where I lack. I am perfectly content with my common blue jeans and a simple tee. I can't simply think beyond that, because my faculties somehow stop working when it comes to dressing. And these "girly" friends of mine are awesome.
I have called a person "girly" for a specific reason.
She knows, and din't care a damn.
You do because you simply can't mind your own business and have to butt into mine.
Get a life!
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| Really! |
The thought gives me immeasurable sadistic happiness.
Oh pleasure! Be mine!
;)
:) i wish our modernist pigeon would read this! ;)
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